Friendship, Understanding, and Hope. Supporting Family After a Child Dies

"...that their light may always shine."

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Join Us December 13, 2015

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39th National

July 8-10, 2016  |  Scottsdale, AZ

37th National Conference

Walk to Remember

July 10, 2016  |  Scottsdale, AZ

Walk to Remember

Tragedy in Roseburg, Oregon:

Once again as a country we face a national tragedy of senseless violence in Roseburg, Oregon. We as Compassionate Friends know all too well the shock and pain and stand next to the families who are now missing loved ones and wondering how to move forward. Today we reach out to those families in Roseburg and offer our hearts and support. We also reach out to each of us who are walking our own path of grief. We understand that sometimes sad events like this one can trigger emotions in all of us. We are here to listen, to understand and to offer support to the families in Oregon and across our country. Remember today and always, We need Not Walk Alone. 

If you are a bereaved family member, and would like to speak to someone directly, please call the National Office at 877.969.0010. For media inquiries only, please call 248.468.1881.

The Compassionate Friends:

Providing Grief Support After the Death of a Child

"The Compassionate Friends is about transforming the pain of grief into the elixir of hope. It takes people out of the isolation society imposes on the bereaved and lets them express their grief naturally. With the shedding of tears, healing comes. And the newly bereaved get to see people who have survived and are learning to live and love again."

–Simon Stephens, founder of The Compassionate Friends


The words of TCF's Founder, Simon Stephens, resonate with those who have come to The Compassionate Friends hoping to find a purpose in a life that suddenly seems so empty.

Whether your family has had a child die (at any age from any cause) or you are trying to help those who have gone through this life altering experience, The Compassionate Friends exists to provide friendship, understanding, and hope to those going through the natural grieving process.

Through a network of more than 650 chapters with locations in all 50 states, as well as Washington DC, Puerto Rico, and Guam, The Compassionate Friends has been supporting bereaved families after the death of a child for four decades.

The National Office and its staff also provide many levels of support to our chapters, as well as individual responses to those who call on the phone, contact us through our website, or send an e-mail that simply says, "My child has died. Help me!" We will be here as long as you need us. That is our commitment to you.

Time has proven that in caring and sharing comes healing. 

We welcome you to The Compassionate Friends.


After a Child Dies


To the Newly Bereaved

Information to help you find your way through this difficult time.



Open to Hope

The Compassionate Friends recommends The Open to Hope Show as a grief/loss resource for families going through the natural grieving process after the death of a child. The ongoing series is dedicated to Dr. Gloria Horsley's and Dr. Heidi Horsley's son and brother, Scott Preston Horsley. It keys on issues of importance to families that have experienced the death of a child.

Watch the most recent episode of the Open To Hope Show: Open to Hope