2013 TCF National Conferences

TCF National Conferences: Find Friendship, Understanding, and Hope!

A national conference of The Compassionate Friends is unlike any other conference you may ever attend. It is a place where you can go and know that you truly are not alone as you travel your grief journey. Every person comes for the same reason  a child has died. It is a place where "friendship, understanding, and hope" are more than just words.

For almost three and a half decades, The Compassionate Friends has held national conferences in different locations, from the east coast to the west coast, from north to south. Today it’s normal to have 1100-1400 bereaved parents, siblings, and grandparents attend. Of that number, it usually is the first TCF National Conference for over a quarter of those attending. Those new to TCF conferences are given a special butterfly sticker to wear on their nametag so that others may notice and give them special hugs. Everyone feels they are in a place where they belong. We often say that those at the conference are friends you simply have not yet met.

At each conference, there are many activities, but you decide what is right for you. There are more than 100 workshops (but don’t think these are work—they’re really a time for learning and sharing). Many areas of grief are covered by the workshops. There are workshops for bereaved parents, siblings, and grandparents. And there will be many workshops for those who have no surviving children. You’ll find a hospitality room, a reflection room, the Butterfly Boutique, and a completely stocked bookstore. There are very interesting and well-known speakers who address the Opening Session, the Friday afternoon banquet, the Saturday evening banquet, and the Sunday closing. You’ll also marvel at the quality of entertainment geared for those attending. There’s also a special candle lighting ceremony to conclude the Saturday evening banquet. If you like a more intimate time with others, join in the evening sharing sessions of your choice

But don’t miss the Walk to Remember Sunday at 8 a.m. prior to the closing. As many as 1300-1500 carry the names of more than 10,000 children from across the country who will always be remembered. Some fly in from across the country just to participate in the Walk!

For Registration and Hotel Reservation on this year's TCF National Conference in Boston, visit 2013 National Conference.


CDs and DVDs still available of speakers and workshop presenters from the 2011 National Conference in Minneapolis, Minnesota!

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Find out for yourself why notes are received after our conferences that echo these we received:

Best thing I've ever done! Thank you to all the friends I made at the conference. You all inspire me! The memory boards were overwhelming. It was easy to only see the face of my own grief. Now I see all the beautiful faces of yours. I will forever be linked to you. I love you.

It was an amazing experience. I was in a very dark, sad place when I left home to fly to (the conference). When I came home, I felt a glimmer of hope in the possibilities. I learned so much. Met some sweet, caring people. At the risk of sounding overly dramatic, it changed me. Thank you, my Compassionate Friends.

"The conference was a drink of water for my soul.  Thank God for TCF and all the wonderful people who give of themselves to make it all happen.  Thank you!!!"

"I always feel like I’m wrapped in a cocoon of compassionate love when I’m at a TCF National Conference. This is one of the greatest healing tools available to a bereaved family."

CDs and DVDs now available of 2011 National  Conference speakers and workshop presenters
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CDs and DVDs still available of 2010 National  Conference speakers and workshop presenters

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Note: View 2011 National Conference/Walk to Remember Photos on Facebook!

TCF's 34th National Conference was one of love, caring, and sharing and remain in the hearts of those 1300 who attended. Those looking back at what they experienced at the conference will remember the great keynote speakers, the many grief related workshops, and the Walk to Remember, just to name a few of the highlights.

  View video from the 2010 National Conference in Arlington, Virginia and relive the memories.



Here are a few of the many comments posted on our TCF/USA Facebook Page from Compassionate Friends who attended the 34th National Conference held in Minneapolis:

Chris G: My 1st conference. I went anxious, nervous, and not knowing what to expect. What a wonderful experience!!!!

Leah K: It was so wonderful to talk about my son all weekend and not have people turn away. I left this weekend with HOPE in my heart.

Barbara L: The bond that we all have is amazing. No one is a stranger and we all act like we have known each other forever. In reality we have. I thought it was all great and the candle lighting was a highlight. Seeing all of those candles and all those people was something I will always remember.

Nancy M: This was our first conference and I cried so many tears, not just for myself, but for all the stories people shared. I have never felt such peace as when we walked together and shared and hugged and we all knew. It was so healing for me. I have gotten stronger because of the hope that was given me. My husband and I came away from it with a renewed spirit. We will be there again next year.


For a deeply moving story by one of those who took pen to paper after the conference, please read the heartfelt remembrance written by Anne Castaldo of the Bridgeport, Ct. Chapter of The Compassionate Friends, which we warmly call "Healing on the Wings of Hope."